That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

Lotus

Jason reflects on the transformative friendship with a woman he calls Lotus, sharing lessons about emotional space, setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating the complexities of the non-monogamous lifestyle.
This episode blends personal confession, spiritual insight, and practical advice on asking for help, honoring feelings, and choosing where to invest your time and energy.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Spot!

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

I don't know

Jason recounts his weekend at the Pulsify takeover and shares the origin story of how he and his wife found the lifestyle, not for sex, but to build friendships and a social tribe after years of loneliness. He reflects on the emotional moment at the beach that started it all, the awkward early experiences, and lessons learned about communication and safety.
This episode mixes candid vulnerability with humor, advice on navigating swinger culture (including testing and boundaries), and a reminder that the lifestyle can be a meaningful way to find community and connection.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

the mundane

Host Jason reflects on late-night memories from the lifestyle, celebrating quiet, mundane moments—coffee, slow dances, shared jokes—that often mean more than the wild sexual adventures.
Through personal stories, he explores how attention, friendship, and simple human connection deepen relationships in ethical non-monogamy and invites listeners to make new memories together.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Gifts, Pineapples & Pleasure: The Ultimate Lifestyle Present Guide

Jason celebrates his birthday by sharing playful, practical gift ideas for friends in the lifestyle, from discreet sex toys, robes, and squirt blankets to themed pineapple keepsakes and thoughtful non-sex gifts. He also stresses STI testing with a recommendation for discreet at-home kits and offers do's and don'ts for giving without pressure or expectations.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Hot Tequila

In this raw, unfiltered episode, Jason shares a personal breakdown and recovery from mental health struggles within the lifestyle community.
He explores themes of anxiety, disordered attachment, therapy, the challenges unique to the lifestyle, and the importance of honest communication and support.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

When the Party Ends

(Reupload) Host Jason explores what happens when the swinger/lifestyle scene stops being fun — why couples consider breaks or endings, how to have honest conversations, and the toll of burnout, drama, and mental health.
He shares practical steps for stepping back or leaving gracefully, what life can look like afterward, and reassurance that questioning or changing your participation is normal and okay.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Bad Dates

Host Jason shares laughable and cringe-worthy stories of bad dates from the lifestyle scene, from awkward dinner conversations and red flags to dealing with flaky or arrogant couples. He offers practical tips on what to watch for, how to exit a bad date, and why these misadventures can become campfire stories.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Splash Houston: Why we do this (Reupload)

Welcome to the Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by Jason, where we venture beyond the vanilla world into the vibrant sphere of ethical non-monogamy. This episode dives deep into the exciting Splash Houston event, detailing the allure of lifestyle parties and the liberating feeling of self-expression among like-minded individuals. Jason reflects on the transformative experiences within this unique community, shedding light on the freedom and joy that comes from connecting with others and exploring sensual desires.
Listeners are introduced to the thrills of hotel takeovers, clothing-optional pool parties, and the organized, secure atmosphere of Splash events. The podcast also touches on the personal challenges faced by Jason, offering a genuine perspective on mental health struggles and the importance of finding joy despite life's hurdles. For lifestyle enthusiasts and the curious alike, this episode is a captivating exploration of identity, community, and the pursuit of freedom beyond societal norms.
www.Splashtakeovers.com
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Diving into One-Night Stands

Welcome to That Other Lifestyle Podcast, where Jason delves into the world of one-night stands. This adult-only episode is not just about the thrills of no-strings-attached encounters but also a guide to navigating these experiences responsibly. Whether you're a part of the lifestyle community or simply curious, Jason offers insights on how to approach one-night stands with honesty, communication, and safety in mind. From choosing the right setting to clear conversations with partners, dive into an in-depth exploration of short-term connections and their place in the lifestyle. Join the conversation and step beyond vanilla into a world of open-minded adventures.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com