That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast
Ready to ditch the vanilla life and explore something a little… spicier? Leave Vanilla Behind and listen to That Other Lifestyle, the unapologetically real swinger/lifestyle podcast where I skip the fluff and dive headfirst into the wild, weird, wonderful world of ethical non-monogamy. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the stories, I will help you navigate the Lifestyle from sexy etiquette and emotional intelligence to the awkward mishaps and unforgettable wins.
Expect unfiltered advice, real talk, and just enough humor to make your playdates blush. This is the show for people who don’t just talk about freedom, they live it.
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Episodes

Thursday Dec 18, 2025
Thursday Dec 18, 2025
Jason uses a map-and-sea metaphor to unpack sexual dynamics in the lifestyle: desire, power, connection, and risk. He stresses clear communication, consent, and rejecting shame while exploring examples like FFM vs FMF, full swap nuances, and bisexuality.
Practical takeaways include naming preferences, setting boundaries with partners, avoiding escalatory pressure, and choosing whether to keep exploring or anchor in a dynamic that fits you.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Dec 11, 2025
Thursday Dec 11, 2025
Jason walks through everything you need to know to plan and host a lifestyle meetup, from choosing a venue and talking to managers to promotion, vetting, and managing the crowd.
He covers public vs. private events, budgeting and ticketing, safety and discretion, dealing with problem attendees, and tips for welcoming newbies and building lasting events.
This episode is a practical, honest, and inclusive how‑to for anyone who wants to start a meetup or make their next event better.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Dec 04, 2025
Thursday Dec 04, 2025
Host Jason sits down with Bella, a retired sex therapist, and her husband Prescott to share their origin story in the lifestyle, how they worked through jealousy, and the tools that strengthened their relationship.
The episode covers practical advice for dating app profiles, privacy and validation tips, speed dates and travel strategies, and communication exercises like the “what if” game and jealousy workbooks.
Listeners will get candid, adult-focused conversations about consent, building trust, navigating emotions, and resources and courses from the guests to help newcomers and experienced lifestyle participants alike.
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My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Nov 27, 2025
Thursday Nov 27, 2025
Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery.
The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Oct 23, 2025
Thursday Oct 23, 2025
Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Oct 09, 2025
Thursday Oct 09, 2025
Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Sep 18, 2025
Thursday Sep 18, 2025
Host Jason reflects on late-night memories from the lifestyle, celebrating quiet, mundane moments—coffee, slow dances, shared jokes—that often mean more than the wild sexual adventures.
Through personal stories, he explores how attention, friendship, and simple human connection deepen relationships in ethical non-monogamy and invites listeners to make new memories together.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Jason celebrates his birthday by sharing playful, practical gift ideas for friends in the lifestyle, from discreet sex toys, robes, and squirt blankets to themed pineapple keepsakes and thoughtful non-sex gifts. He also stresses STI testing with a recommendation for discreet at-home kits and offers do's and don'ts for giving without pressure or expectations.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Host Jason shares laughable and cringe-worthy stories of bad dates from the lifestyle scene, from awkward dinner conversations and red flags to dealing with flaky or arrogant couples. He offers practical tips on what to watch for, how to exit a bad date, and why these misadventures can become campfire stories.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Welcome to That Other Lifestyle Podcast, where Jason delves into the world of one-night stands. This adult-only episode is not just about the thrills of no-strings-attached encounters but also a guide to navigating these experiences responsibly. Whether you're a part of the lifestyle community or simply curious, Jason offers insights on how to approach one-night stands with honesty, communication, and safety in mind. From choosing the right setting to clear conversations with partners, dive into an in-depth exploration of short-term connections and their place in the lifestyle. Join the conversation and step beyond vanilla into a world of open-minded adventures.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com









