That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

Ready to ditch the vanilla life and explore something a little… spicier? Leave Vanilla Behind and listen to That Other Lifestyle, the unapologetically real swinger/lifestyle podcast where I skip the fluff and dive headfirst into the wild, weird, wonderful world of ethical non-monogamy. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the stories, I will help you navigate the Lifestyle from sexy etiquette and emotional intelligence to the awkward mishaps and unforgettable wins.

Expect unfiltered advice, real talk, and just enough humor to make your playdates blush. This is the show for people who don’t just talk about freedom, they live it.

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Episodes

Thursday Nov 27, 2025

Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery.
The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

White Hot

Thursday Oct 23, 2025

Thursday Oct 23, 2025

Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Spot!

Thursday Oct 09, 2025

Thursday Oct 09, 2025

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

the mundane

Thursday Sep 18, 2025

Thursday Sep 18, 2025

Host Jason reflects on late-night memories from the lifestyle, celebrating quiet, mundane moments—coffee, slow dances, shared jokes—that often mean more than the wild sexual adventures.
Through personal stories, he explores how attention, friendship, and simple human connection deepen relationships in ethical non-monogamy and invites listeners to make new memories together.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Sep 11, 2025

Jason celebrates his birthday by sharing playful, practical gift ideas for friends in the lifestyle, from discreet sex toys, robes, and squirt blankets to themed pineapple keepsakes and thoughtful non-sex gifts. He also stresses STI testing with a recommendation for discreet at-home kits and offers do's and don'ts for giving without pressure or expectations.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Bad Dates

Thursday Aug 21, 2025

Thursday Aug 21, 2025

Host Jason shares laughable and cringe-worthy stories of bad dates from the lifestyle scene, from awkward dinner conversations and red flags to dealing with flaky or arrogant couples. He offers practical tips on what to watch for, how to exit a bad date, and why these misadventures can become campfire stories.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Diving into One-Night Stands

Thursday Jul 24, 2025

Thursday Jul 24, 2025

Welcome to That Other Lifestyle Podcast, where Jason delves into the world of one-night stands. This adult-only episode is not just about the thrills of no-strings-attached encounters but also a guide to navigating these experiences responsibly. Whether you're a part of the lifestyle community or simply curious, Jason offers insights on how to approach one-night stands with honesty, communication, and safety in mind. From choosing the right setting to clear conversations with partners, dive into an in-depth exploration of short-term connections and their place in the lifestyle. Join the conversation and step beyond vanilla into a world of open-minded adventures.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Thursday Jul 17, 2025

Join Jason, host of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, for an adventurous dive into 'Naughty in New Orleans,' the granddaddy of swinger lifestyle events. This episode isn't just about recounting personal escapades at this legendary event but focuses on exploring various lifestyle events that cater to adult and sexual topics. Jason shares his experiences navigating through different vibes and styles of swinging culture while offering insights into making the most out of such events.
Discover the importance of setting expectations, understanding social boundaries, and finding the right kind of events for you and your partner. Tune in to learn about different facets of the lifestyle, including BDSM workshops, naked yoga sessions, and playrooms, all aimed at creating a well-rounded, sex-positive convention.
Whether you're a lifestyle enthusiast, curious vanilla, or somewhere in between, this episode offers something for everyone looking to expand their horizons in ethical non-monogamy. With a mix of playful anecdotes and practical advice, it's a listening experience that will leave you eager to plan your own adventure into the world of alternative lifestyles.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Reflections on the Lifestyle

Thursday Jul 03, 2025

Thursday Jul 03, 2025

Welcome to the Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by the ever-curious Jason. In this episode, we explore the realms of ethical non-monogamy, where the essence of connection extends beyond mere physical intimacy. Jason dives deep into the intrinsic emotions and complex realities that the lifestyle entails, sharing profound insights gained from his own journey and the myriad of voices he's encountered along the way.
From the unexpected challenges of erectile dysfunction and the whimsical intensity of 'hoe phases' to the unique, unfiltered stories that define this vibrant community, join us as we embrace the kaleidoscopic world where inhibitions are left at the door. Discover why sharing, understanding, and stepping out of your comfort zone are fundamental to growth within the lifestyle, while cherishing every connection along the way.
Whether you're a seasoned participant, a curious outsider, or anywhere in between, this episode invites you to look beyond the physical, to reflect on growth and genuine connections. All while underlining the importance of emotional authenticity amidst the colorful chaos of parties and encounters. As always, safety and communication take center stage, reminding listeners to stay secure and confident in the choices they make. Dare to explore, dare to understand, and dare to connect.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Psychedelics

Thursday Jun 26, 2025

Thursday Jun 26, 2025

Join us for a wild ride through a night at a swinger convention, where chaos meets charisma and boundaries blur in a swirl of lights and music. The episode takes you on a vivid journey, exploring the intersection of morality and freedom, the allure of the unknown, and the eternal question of what it means to truly let go. Between candid humor and surreal experiences, uncover the essence of a lifestyle party and the human condition, all wrapped in an unapologetic narrative.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

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