That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

Stereotypes

Host Jason digs into the stigma, stereotypes, and private struggles of people in the swinging and non-monogamous communities. Through candid stories and a frank, adult perspective, he explores why many in the lifestyle bite their tongues around vanilla friends, the misconceptions spread by outsiders, and the internal issues the community must confront. Expect blunt honesty, real talk about consent and communication, and a call to stop letting stereotypes define us.
 
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Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Strange Rooms

A late-night, first-person account of a Luminous hotel takeover where neon lights, shamanic play, and EDM create a modern ritual. The host reflects on the yearning for community, welcoming newcomers, the highs and burnout of living loudly in the lifestyle, and the quiet meaning found in small acts of belonging.
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Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Lights, Consent, Action: Making Sex Tapes in the Lifestyle

Jason breaks down the realities of making sex tapes in the lifestyle, focusing on consent, trust, and the risks of recording intimate moments.
The episode offers clear, practical advice: when and how to ask, who should film, storage and privacy considerations, and what to do if someone later revokes permission.
 
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Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
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SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

I Dream of Arcadia — 100 Episodes of Lust, Loss, and Liberation

Host Jason marks his 100th episode by exploring "Arcadia" — the intense, fleeting feeling of freedom, connection, and sexual abandon in the lifestyle. He reflects on addiction to the high, the pain of endings, and the rewards of deep friendships that let you return again and again.
Jason also shares candid advice about consent and balance, announces upcoming events (Luminous and Sultry Spirits), and invites listeners to connect via the show website and Patreon.
 
 
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Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Fur Coat

Steve and Rebecca experience their first hotel lifestyle takeover, navigating nerves, rules, and the pulsing chaos of the ballroom.
From awkward encounters and unwanted advances to supportive friends and tense choices, the night tests their boundaries and connection.
 
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Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
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SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Identity

Jason examines how identity and labels shape the lifestyle world, comparing corporate job titles to the play dynamics couples choose for themselves.
He explains common dynamics—soft swap, full swap, same-room vs separate-room, and group play—offers tips for crafting a clear elevator pitch, and stresses communication, boundaries, and sexual health.
The episode centers on consent, respect, and the freedom to choose or change your play dynamic without judgment.
 
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Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
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STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

The Last Normal Day

Host Jason reflects on the moments that mark the end of a life as it was — from the Baton Rouge flood that washed away a home, to the first full swap that ended their vanilla marriage, to an unexpected layoff that upended routine. He explores how sudden change reshapes identity, relationships, and what it means to live in the lifestyle.
Raw, candid, and often funny, this episode uses the idea of a "last normal day" to honor the peace before the storm and the new reality that follows, inviting listeners to consider their own turning points.
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Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
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SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Blank Page, Full Hearts: Writing New Stories in the Lifestyle

Jason explores the "blank white page" metaphor as it applies to the lifestyle, how novelty, attraction, and writer 's-block-style hesitation shape first impressions, consent, vetting, and the stories we choose to write with new partners and couples.
He shares candid tips on communication, safety (including STI testing), balancing desire with discernment, and deciding when to pursue or walk away, encouraging listeners to be brave, clear, and emotionally mature.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Cryptid Couples: Bigfoot, Branding, and the Lifestyle

Jason uses Bigfoot and other cryptids as a playful metaphor for couples everyone knows exist but rarely meets, and explores how visibility, images, and reputation act like marketing in the lifestyle community.
With personal anecdotes, allergy-fueled honesty, and event notes, he explains how to craft a compelling personal brand, change perceptions through repeated evidence, and use presence to attract the right connections—always emphasizing consent and authenticity.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Cobwebs

Host Jason shares a short story about Sam and Brenda, a married couple navigating jealousy, alcohol, and the local lifestyle meetup scene. The episode follows their tense night at a beachside bar where flirting, misunderstandings, and old wounds surface amid a crowded community gathering.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com