That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

Stories

Host Jason explores how personal stories in the lifestyle—good, bad, and funny—shape community norms, communicate etiquette, and help people find compatible play styles. He reflects on the oral tradition of sharing origin stories, dating adventures, and the way narratives influence attraction and behavior.
The episode also covers ethics around storytelling: avoid naming or shaming, understand the difference between gossip and warnings, practice "story consent," and respect privacy so stories build community instead of destroying reputations.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

The Witching Hour

Host Jason explores the "witching hour": that late-night moment at lifestyle parties, cruises, and events when the vibe shifts and people look for last-chance encounters. He shares stories, types of people you’ll meet, and the emotional realities of endings, rejection, and desire.
Jason gives practical advice: discuss boundaries with your partner before the event, be clear about intentions, practice consent and testing, and know when to be bold or walk away. The episode is candid, adult, and focused on real-world lifestyle etiquette.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Cucumber

A fictional episode in which a newbie couple explores the lifestyle with a dinner date that escalates into boundary-crossing and confusion; highlights the importance of consent, communication, and respecting limits.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Mezzanine

Host Jason uses the hotel mezzanine as a metaphor to explore social tiers in the ethical non‑monogamy community from the high‑visibility "shiny people" and secret side rooms to the lobby of newbies and burnouts. He reflects on inclusion, burnout, and how popularity often masks real connection.
The episode validates different ways to engage, warns against chasing status, and encourages listeners to find their own tribe and experience the lifestyle on their own terms.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Come In, Come In: A Lifestyle Christmas Carol

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening.  Jason connects Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol (via the Muppet version) to the lifestyle world, using the ghosts of past, present, and future as metaphors for memories, party energy, and long-term consequences. He shares personal holiday stories about raves, parties, shame, joy, boundaries, and community, urging listeners to come in, connect, and care for each other as the year turns.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Here Be Dragons

Jason uses a map-and-sea metaphor to unpack sexual dynamics in the lifestyle: desire, power, connection, and risk. He stresses clear communication, consent, and rejecting shame while exploring examples like FFM vs FMF, full swap nuances, and bisexuality.
Practical takeaways include naming preferences, setting boundaries with partners, avoiding escalatory pressure, and choosing whether to keep exploring or anchor in a dynamic that fits you.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

How to host a Meetup

Jason walks through everything you need to know to plan and host a lifestyle meetup, from choosing a venue and talking to managers to promotion, vetting, and managing the crowd.
He covers public vs. private events, budgeting and ticketing, safety and discretion, dealing with problem attendees, and tips for welcoming newbies and building lasting events.
This episode is a practical, honest, and inclusive how‑to for anyone who wants to start a meetup or make their next event better.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Let's talk to the Flirty Pineapples

Host Jason sits down with Bella, a retired sex therapist, and her husband Prescott to share their origin story in the lifestyle, how they worked through jealousy, and the tools that strengthened their relationship.
The episode covers practical advice for dating app profiles, privacy and validation tips, speed dates and travel strategies, and communication exercises like the “what if” game and jealousy workbooks.
Listeners will get candid, adult-focused conversations about consent, building trust, navigating emotions, and resources and courses from the guests to help newcomers and experienced lifestyle participants alike.
www.instagram.com/TheFlirtyPineapples/
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

Back from the Horizon: Returning to the Lifestyle

Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery.
The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com

White Hot

Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy.
 
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com